Oral sex is often (although unfairly) controversial. Meanwhile, erotic caresses with the mouth can diversify foreplay or become an independent sexual act. An orgasm achieved in this way is an extraordinary experience for each lover.
How to prepare for caresses with the tongue and mouth and how to achieve full satisfaction from such intercourse? Read and see what you absolutely must remember.
What is oral sex? A short guide for the uninitiated
Although more and more is being said about oral sex, it happens that sexually active people are not aware of what this type of intercourse can consist of. Oral sex, also known as French sex, is the stimulation of a woman’s or man’s genitals with the tongue and mouth. The repertoire of French love is incredibly wide and includes kissing, licking, sucking, gentle pulling and teasing of intimate areas, and if partners prefer rougher games - also biting the penis or clitoris or the entire genitals. However, this type of intimacy requires appropriate preparation. How to do it? Read and check out the tips for her and him.
How to prepare for French sex? Tips for her and him
When deciding on French sex, you need to be sure that you want it. It doesn’t matter whether you will have oral sex in a permanent relationship or you have arranged a sex date for this purpose - what is important is the mutual desire and mutual consent to this type of intimacy.
How to prepare for oral sex?
Tip for her and him: take care of hygiene. Before starting to caress, it is worth taking care of personal hygiene. A fantastic way to spice up the atmosphere, reduce tension and stimulate the imagination is to take a bath together. A shower (during it you can caress your erogenous zones) and a long bubble bath can be exciting. It all depends on how quickly you want to get down to business.
A tip for her and him: make sure you have the right protection. Contrary to popular belief, oral sex is not safe and requires the use of a condom or, in the case of caressing your partner, French sex wipes outside of a permanent relationship. During caressing with the tongue and mouth, there is a risk of infection with, among others, syphilis, gonorrhea, HSV and HVP.
A tip for her and him: make sure you have the right moisture. Does your partner want to taste you? Make sure not only of proper hygiene, but also of proper moisture. Flavoured intimate gels will come to the rescue. The application itself can be an incredibly hot experience.
A tip for her: make sure you have the right underwear. The offer of women’s underwear, including erotic underwear, is extremely wide and includes underwear designed with oral caresses in mind. A suggestion that will stimulate his imagination, relax and excite him are open panties. A sexy slit that facilitates access to intimate places is a way to intensify the sensations.
A tip for her and for him: take care of your diet. French sex is worth planning at least 2-3 days in advance. When arranging a meeting with a partner or a sex date, pay attention to what you eat. Diet affects the taste of male semen and female mucus. It is worth eliminating onion, garlic and spicy foods from meals. The menu should not lack pineapples, citrus fruits and grapes.
A tip for her: take care of the right intimate hairstyle. Apparently, nothing excites men as much as the right intimate hairstyle. If you prefer complete depilation on a daily basis or, on the contrary, you give it up, go wild before French sex. If you are responding to a sex ad, make sure what will arouse your partner’s interest.
Do you make sex offers to men? You can inform them in the erotic ad what they can expect. It is worth surprising a regular partner with a small change from time to time.
A tip for her and for him: take care of the theory. It does not matter whether you are just making your debut in French sex or you are experienced in oral sex. It is worth supplementing the theory regularly, in order to make the practice more attractive.
How to prepare a woman for oral sex, and how to prepare a man?
How to prepare a woman for oral caresses?
Remember that a woman’s intimate areas are very sensitive. If you want to prepare your partner for oral sex, you need to start caresses in the right way. A subtle touch will be a good idea, which will gain intensity over time. You can kiss the thighs and labia majora, moving upwards. Be patient, it will pay off!
How to prepare a man for oral caresses?
Before you take the penis into your mouth, remember that the most sensitive points are located on the head of the penis, especially on the frenulum. Teasing these areas will certainly give your lover maximum pleasure. However, remember not to blow into the hole located at the top of the penis head. This can be dangerous.