One step to friendship
Friendship with a client can make a difference, both in your behavior and in your professional relationship. Don’t wait for it to get hot. As soon as you notice the first signs of developing a deeper relationship, think about whether you really want to go on.
Remember that by publishing your sex offer on the web, you contact real men who are often looking not only for erotic pleasure, but also for closeness, from which even a long-term friendship can be born. Therefore, at some point in your career path, you should answer a few questions. How much are you able to afford? Do you want to separate your professional and private life, or maybe combine these two spheres and be friends with your clients? If you choose the latter solution, you have to take into account that you may be exposed. You never quite know who you are dealing with and whether your new friendship will turn out to be real and will stand the test of time.
On the other hand, having sex with someone, opening up fully to them, can give birth to something really beautiful that is worth fighting for. However, here also another "but" appears. Establishing closer relationships with clients too often can make it difficult for you to be professional and treat your profession as a job rather than an option to find more friends.
Can you afford more with a regular customer?
You will probably say: "Ok, I may be afraid of the new client, but what about the constant relationship?" This is where the problem arises. Much depends on the layout you are in. If the client is your guardian and sponsor at the same time - he or she simply organizes your life and you are exclusive to it, then a deeper relationship may naturally arise between you. By showing yourself together, going to parties, you can make friends and then the aspect of your exposure or mixing your professional and private life completely loses the sense of consideration.
On the other hand, being a classic girl on the phone and publishing your escort announcements on the web, you must remember that they are often one-time meetings or cyclical, but transaction-based - money for pleasure. And what is worse, such men can often get confused with the provision of a service, which, even with a regular customer, can be risky for you in many areas. Loss of anonymity, industry defacement and other such threats are often not worth trying to be friends with a customer without any guarantee that it is actually something deeper.
What do other girls on the phone think about this?
You are probably wondering what other girls on the phone think about friendship with the client. By observing their posts on forums and discussion groups, it can be said that most of them are strongly against mixing professional and private life. When a client wants something more from them than their sex offer implies, they simply thank him, saying that their social announcement is not what they are currently looking for.
There are also a few girls’ entries saying that it depends on the situation. If they really feel that they can be friends with someone, they go for it and do not pay attention to the consequences, because they value friendship very much and work is lower in their hierarchy of values.
As you can see, there is no unequivocal answer to the question of whether it is worth being friends with the client of a sex offer. This is a topic that you need to consider individually, taking into account the aspects we mentioned above. You can also ask your friends, who are also call girls, and if you feel embarrassed, ask a question anonymously on one of the forums about this type of work. We are convinced that you will make the right decision and establish your strict code of boundaries - you just need to thoroughly analyze all the pros and cons and then write a list of rules that will apply to both you and each client of your sex offer.